Wyatt did great at his 6 month appointment.
Weight: 16 lbs 7 ounces
Height: 26.5 inches
Head: 44.5 cm
As we were two weeks late with our appt, this bumped Wyatt up a bit. Height and weight he is a bit above 25th percentile and his head is a bit above the 50th percentile. Which is about where we were last time, so his growth is consistent.
He was pretty straight faced with the doc, which is hard b/c our pediatrician is just adorable, but Dr. Worsley said that is to be expected as he starts into the "stranger anxiety phase".
One of the reasons I love our doctor is that he is super supportive of parents and informative about what I am to expect next. He knows I am a stay-at-home mommy and made sure to point out that 'stranger anxiety' is not a result of a child's environment but of a kid's personality. His example was that some people go to parties and talk to everyone (me) and some people go to parties and only talk to their close friends (J.B.). And going to a bunch of parties doesn't change what type of party-goer you are.
I loved this example b/c if Wyatt does end up being like his Daddy (which he is personality wise so far), then I will be able to confidently say it is not b/c he is "with me too much" which I have heard many people say about children who have the advantage of a SAHM, but that I just have a moody child who is not social. Haha.
Which leads me to my soap box..*stepping up*....being a SAHM I have been surprised when I say I am a SAHM how many people tell me it is good for him to be away from me and ask me when I am going to put him into part-time child care. I politely say "maybe when he is older" and change the subject when I really want to scream "I am his child care!! Taking care of him and my husband and household is my full time job!!" When people ask about me putting him into daycare, it really chaps my hide! I know they don't mean anything personal by it, but I take it as them saying that what I do for my family and especially Wyatt can be easily duplicated and/or replaced. And I firmly disagree with that, especially at his young age. The thought of him spending his days (or even part days)anywhere but with me right now would make my brain and heart explode! (Note when he becomes a terrible toddler, I might sing a different tune and demand he go to a Mother's Day Out). I just find it ironic that I have never heard a person ask a working mom when they are going to go part-time at their job to stay at home with their little one. Seems reasonable to me.
I believe everyone makes decisions for what they feel is best for their family. JB and I feel me being home is the best and only decision for our family. I have many working mom friends and I can't imagine how they balance a baby, marriage, social life, personal time and a career on top of that. Bottom line is that we, as moms, are all doing the best we can. As a new mom, I am not always confident that I am doing all that I can be for Wyatt, but am giving it 100%. So, little innocent comments from people shouldn't get such a rise in me, but they do.
*stepping down now from my soapbox, as I need to get a scoop of detergent out to finish the laundry*
Also, b/c every blog needs a picture....here is Wyatt's mad face. He does a really high-pitched slobbery zurbert as he fusses for you to pick him up.